MPENDWA
Member Covenant & Agreement

Terms of Service & Code of Courtship

Guidelines established to protect the dignity, emotional safety, and time of every Mpendwa member.

1. Mandatory Single-Status Affidavit

Mpendwa is strictly dedicated to individuals seeking committed, monogamous life partnership or marriage. Married individuals, persons in cohabiting relationships, or anyone seeking casual encounters are strictly prohibited from membership.

Every applicant affirms under penalty of permanent termination and legal action that they are legally single, officially divorced, or widowed. Falsifying marital status results in immediate expulsion and forfeiture of all fees.

2. The 48-Hour Intentional Decision Window

To eliminate ghosting and respect the vulnerability of members, all match proposals operate under a strict 48-hour response window.

3. Mutual Discretion & Non-Disclosure (Anti-Screenshot Policy)

All candidate cards, photographs, and introduction details shared within Mpendwa are strictly confidential. Members agree not to capture screenshots, record video calls, or disclose candidate details to external third parties.

4. Respectful Communication Standards

All interactions—whether inside the virtual video rooms or at concierge venues—must reflect emotional maturity, cultural dignity, and mutual respect. Harassment, unsolicited solicitation, vulgarity, or unpunctuality will lead to immediate membership review.

5. Concierge Admissions & Capacity Management

Admission into an active cohort is managed on a rolling basis. Mpendwa reserves the right to cap cohort size or place applicants on a waitlist to maintain an optimal gender and values balance.